Gene Simmons regrets not staging intervention for late KISS guitarist Ace Frehley decades ago
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Gene Simmons, the 76-year-old bassist and co-founder of legendary rock band KISS, has expressed deep regret over missed opportunities to help his former bandmate Ace Frehley, who died in 2024 at age 74. Speaking on the Inside Of You With Michael Rosenbaum podcast, Simmons revealed that he should have staged an intervention "decades ago" when Frehley was battling addiction issues during the height of the band's fame.
What Simmons said about the intervention
"I should have, and could have, but I should have, a long time ago, when you see the disease starting to get ahold of him, I should have, decades ago, took him aside, it's called an intervention, and forced him to understand he's not just hurting himself by his lifestyle choices, but his family, his child and the fans," Simmons said on the podcast. He acknowledged that the band's decision to downplay Frehley's struggles in public was a collective failure, admitting, "It was a stupid and shameful decision on all our parts, I know mine too."
The toll of fame on band members
Simmons reflected on how success and wealth affected Frehley and fellow original drummer Peter Criss differently than it affected him. He noted that Frehley, who left KISS multiple times over five decades before departing permanently in 2002, turned to "beverages and chemicals" as a coping mechanism. "Early on, he wouldn't show up. He'd be late and all this stuff," Simmons recalled, describing the pattern of absences and unreliability that plagued the band during its commercial peak.
A 50-year cycle of departures and returns
Simmons emphasised that Frehley's struggles were not unique within KISS, describing a repeated cycle of departures and returns that confused fans. "It's been up and down for 50 years with Ace. If you would've met Ace at the beginning of KISS, God bless him, you would've fallen in love with the idea, who he is and all that," he said. Both Frehley and Criss cycled in and out of the band three separate times, creating instability that Simmons acknowledged the fanbase "just couldn't understand."
Respecting the legacy despite the pain
Despite his regrets, Simmons emphasised that Frehley will always be respected as a talented and irreplaceable guitarist whose contributions to KISS shaped the band's identity. Simmons also acknowledged that fame's dark effects were not limited to Frehley, noting that the influx of money and celebrity status affected multiple band members in different ways. The candid reflection underscores the human cost of rock stardom and the challenges of supporting bandmates through addiction while maintaining a public image.