Anupam Kher recalls drama school paper on De Niro on his birthday
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Veteran actor Anupam Kher marked Hollywood legend Robert De Niro's birthday by sharing a deeply personal memory — one that traces the arc from a young drama student's admiration to a decades-long friendship with one of cinema's greatest performers.
From Research Paper to Real Friendship
Kher, 71, revealed that during his final year at drama school, he wrote a research paper on two of De Niro's most celebrated films: Mean Streets and Taxi Driver. At that point in his life, he said, his most ambitious dream was simply to one day shake De Niro's hand. What followed, he reflected, far exceeded that dream.
In a heartfelt post shared alongside photographs of the two together, Kher wrote: 'Happy Birthday, my dearest Mr. De Niro! I was in the final year of drama school when I wrote a research paper on two of your films — #Mean #Streets and #TaxiDriver. At that time, my biggest dream was that someday, somewhere, I might get the opportunity to simply shake your hand. Life, and God, had much bigger plans for me.'
Sharing the Screen — and a Bond
Kher went on to describe how that early dream gave way to something far richer. 'Years later, I found myself not only shaking your hand, but sharing the screen with you in #SilverLiningsPlaybook. And somewhere along the way, I received an even greater gift — the privilege of calling you my friend,' he wrote.
The two actors appeared together in the 2012 David O. Russell-directed film Silver Linings Playbook, which earned multiple Academy Award nominations and cemented Kher's foothold in Hollywood.
A Tribute Across Continents
Extending his birthday message further, Kher wrote: 'There are actors all over the world who would feel blessed if they could achieve even one-hundredth of what you have achieved as an actor. I am certainly one of them. May God give you a long, healthy, happy and peaceful life. May you continue to surprise us, inspire us and spread your brilliance for another thousand years.'
The Tanvi the Great actor signed off with characteristic warmth — 'Love and prayers always! Om Namah Shivaya' — underscoring the personal and spiritual register in which he holds the relationship.
Cannes 2025: A Moment That Went Viral
The bond between the two actors was on public display at Cannes 2025, where Kher and De Niro were photographed sharing a warm embrace. De Niro reportedly kissed Kher on the cheek, a gesture that visibly moved the veteran Indian actor. Kher subsequently described De Niro as the 'greatest actor of all time.'
The birthday tribute, steeped in nostalgia and genuine affection, is a reminder that the most enduring connections in cinema often begin not on a set, but in a classroom.