Poonam Dhillon on single motherhood: 'Only my daughter can make me cry'
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Veteran Bollywood actress and politician Poonam Dhillon opened up about her deeply personal journey as a single mother, revealing that her daughter Paloma is the only person in the world who can move her to tears. The candid disclosure came during an appearance on the reality show Tum Ho Naa - Ghar Ki Superstar, hosted by Rajeev Khandelwal.
An Emotional Confession on National Television
When host Rajeev Khandelwal raised the subject of the challenges women face raising children alone, Poonam became visibly emotional. She spoke candidly about her two children — son Anmol and daughter Paloma — and the weight of parenting without a partner.
'Yes, I was a single mother. I have two children, Anmol and Paloma. When we become mothers for the first time, we don't know what is right and what is wrong. As parents, sometimes we make mistakes, but I try to be everything to them. I try to be their nurse, their teacher, their friend, everything to them. There's only one person who can make me cry, and that's my daughter. I am the only supporter of my daughter,' she said.
Balancing Career and Motherhood
Poonam also recalled how she structured her professional life around her children's daily routines, refusing to let her career come at the cost of her presence as a mother. She recounted a telling memory from the sets of her television series Kitty Party.
'Before going to school, she would come home and say, "Mom, make my ponytail," and when she came back from school, she would come with her homework. She used to sit on the set and do homework with me. So you know, all mothers have to fulfill their responsibilities,' she recalled.
Background: Marriage, Divorce, and Life After
Poonam Dhillon was married to filmmaker Ashok Thakeria in 1988. The marriage ended in divorce in 1997 after nine years, reportedly due to compatibility issues and differing values. The couple share two children — Anmol and Paloma.
Poonam rose to national prominence in the late 1970s and 1980s with films such as Noorie, Basera, and Yeh Vaada Raha, establishing herself as one of Bollywood's leading actresses of that era.
Paloma's Bollywood Debut and the Family Legacy
Daughter Paloma Thakeria made her Bollywood debut in 2023 with the film Dono, which also starred Rajveer Deol, son of actor Sunny Deol. The film marked a new chapter for the family in Indian cinema.
As Poonam continues to balance her public life — spanning films, television, and politics — her candid reflections on motherhood offer a rare, unguarded window into the personal sacrifices that have defined her journey.