Mumbai, September 11 (NationPress) - Bollywood's legendary Kalpana Iyer, fondly referred to as the dancing diva of the 70s and 80s, carved out a remarkable niche for herself with her bold screen presence and high-energy performances.

The 70-year-old actress recently expressed her thoughts on the art of letting go and the grace of embracing change via her social media. “There was a time when we thought we could control everything: our days, our children, our careers, and even the course of life itself. We made meticulous plans, holding onto dreams, routines, and loved ones. Perhaps that was essential then. Life urged us to build, nurture, lead, and safeguard. But gradually, life evolves,” Iyer shared.

“As time passes, the things we once clung to begin to drift away—not always painfully, but sometimes with quiet dignity. Our children grow up and leave—not from disregard, but as they forge their own paths. Cherished homes are sold, not due to a lack of love, but because climbing those stairs became a challenge. Our identities—as managers, mothers, engineers, and teachers—fade like names etched in soft sand,” she elaborated. “Then comes a moment—perhaps a serene afternoon—when we glance around and realize: life has transformed. The individuals we once contacted daily now send texts. The faces surrounding us have changed. Even our own reflection bears gentle lines we never noticed forming. But instead of sorrow, a different feeling emerges. A sense of tranquility.”

In her insightful perspective, she continued, “We gradually understand that letting go is not synonymous with loss. It’s about creating space—for stillness, for peace, for introspection. Letting go means allowing our hearts to cherish memories without being shackled. It signifies acknowledging that we may no longer be the center of the universe—but we remain connected to it, deeply and beautifully.”

She further articulated that the essence of letting go is about elegance, stating, “Letting go is not a sign of weakness. It embodies grace—the grace of a river that flows forward, yielding to the rocks, yet dancing around them. In these years—when the world quiets—we discover the true strength of acceptance. We possess less, yet feel more. We pursue less, yet value more. We speak less, but our words resonate with depth. And so we find ourselves by the window, sipping tea, and smiling—not because life was flawless, but because we experienced it, we loved it, and we let go… with grace.”

Kalpana also clarified that the words she shared were not her own and she is unaware of the author, but she expressed gratitude for the beautiful prose. “(Author unknown) P.S. I take no credit for the words or any part of this beautiful piece. A friend shared it, and I’ve passed it on with the best intentions.” For those unfamiliar, Kalpana Iyer was a prominent figure in Bollywood during the 70s and 80s. She began her career as a model and quickly became a sought-after star in films for her iconic cabaret and disco performances that defined that era in Bollywood. Songs like “Hari Om Hari” from 'Pyar Dushman', “Tu Mujhe Jaan” from 'Wardaat', “Ramba Ho Ho” from 'Armaan', and the iconic disco hit “Koi Yahan Nache Nache” from 'Disco Dancer' solidified her status as an unforgettable performer and dancing sensation of Bollywood. While contemporaries such as Helen and Bindu ruled the earlier decades, Kalpana introduced a fresh vibe to the screen, characterized by her energy, flamboyance, and elegance. She also featured in films like 'Satte Pe Satta', 'Anjaam', and 'Hum Saath Saath Hain', leaving behind a legacy as one of the most captivating performers of all time.