Pankhuri Awasthy cried 3 times before twins Radhya, Raditya started school
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Actress Pankhuri Awasthy shared an emotional account of her twin children — daughter Radhya and son Raditya — beginning their schooling journey, revealing on social media that she unexpectedly broke into tears on three separate occasions in the lead-up to their first day. The heartfelt post, shared on 15 July, quickly resonated with parents across the country.
Three Moments That Made Her Cry
Awasthy, who describes herself as 'not really a crier,' detailed each instance candidly. The first came during school visits the previous year, when she and husband Gautam Rode were shortlisting institutions for the twins. 'It could've been the staircases or just the corridors… and there I was just unable to hold back!' she wrote.
The second moment arrived during a parent orientation session. 'Here I was, sitting in an auditorium full of parents, watching… of all things… a PowerPoint presentation,' she recalled. The third and final wave came the night before their first day, when she sat down to write a note after putting the children to bed and found 'tears quietly found their way.'
The Emotion Behind the Tears
Awasthy was clear that her tears were not born of sadness. 'Sometimes happiness arrives hand in hand with the quiet realisation that your babies are growing up,' she explained. She traced the common thread through all three moments to a single realisation — that Radhya and Raditya were about to begin 'this incredible journey called school life.'
Drawing on her own memories, she wrote: 'Some of my happiest memories are from school. It's where you discover yourself, become who you are. Build long lasting friendships.' She described watching the school corridors not merely as buildings, but as 'the backdrop of the next fifteen years of their lives.'
A Doctor's Words That Stayed With Her
Awasthy also recalled advice from the doctor who delivered her twins, whom she had once asked when the worry of parenthood would ease. 'He smiled the sweetest smile and said, "You won't. The worry and the concern is for life now. That just comes with being a parent,"' she wrote, adding that she still turns to her own parents for every major discussion.
About Pankhuri Awasthy and Her Family
Awasthy is married to television actor Gautam Rode. The couple, who wed in February 2018, first met on the sets of the TV show Suryaputra Karn. Their twins, Radhya and Raditya, were born on 25 July 2023. On the professional front, Awasthy has appeared in several popular television productions including Razia Sultan, Kya Qusoor Hai Amala Ka?, Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai, and Maddam Sir.
As the twins settle into school life, Awasthy signed off her post with a wish: 'May you soar to every height you dream of… May you be curious, brave, and unapologetically yourselves. And I'll be right here… celebrating every little milestone, and probably crying a few more happy tears along the way.'