Ashleigh Gardner: 'Cricket's been a fantastic escape' after marriage breakdown
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Australia vice-captain Ashleigh Gardner has spoken publicly for the first time about the cheating allegations that disrupted her personal life, describing the period of her marriage breakdown as 'challenging' and crediting cricket as 'a really fantastic escape' that helped her stay grounded.
Gardner Breaks Her Silence
Speaking ahead of the Women's Big Bash League (WBBL) season launch on Monday, Gardner addressed the controversy that surfaced when her estranged wife, Monica Wright, alleged the Aussie star had an affair with teammate Georgia Voll in July this year. Gardner is now in a relationship with Voll.
'Cricket's been a really fantastic escape … it's been a bit of a shining light,' Gardner, the Sydney Sixers captain, said, as quoted by the Sydney Morning Herald at the franchise's season launch. 'It's obviously been challenging. Yes, it's my private life, but I guess these things become more of a public matter,' she added.
Context: World Cup Win and the Hundred Title
The allegations from Wright emerged after Australia won the T20 World Cup earlier this year and just before Gardner was set to captain the Trent Rockets in the Women's Hundred — a campaign she led to the title. Gardner reflected on those victories with gratitude, acknowledging the support system around her.
'Being able to win the World Cup and have success in the Hundred campaign as well (was great). I've had some fantastic people around me to be there when I've needed them. I think cricket's been great for that because I know the people around me support me,' she said.
Compartmentalising the Pressure
The 29-year-old all-rounder acknowledged that maintaining focus amid personal turmoil was not always easy. 'There were certainly days that it was tough,' she said. 'That's my job at the end of the day. Life still happens (and it is about) being able to put my full focus into whatever I guess was needed from me, and that's obviously cricket.'
Gardner said her relationships with teammates were a key anchor during that difficult stretch. 'I've made some fantastic friends throughout my career and certainly being able to rely on them at times (was helpful). When you've got a platform, you have a platform. Cricket has been one of those things that has brought me back to why I'm here,' she added.
On Being a Role Model
Gardner also reflected on the weight of responsibility that comes with her profile as a high-profile Australian cricketer. 'Being a role model, people look up to you and whether that's your reputation and things like that. There are so many things to take out of what's happened,' she said. 'I don't really need to go into detail of the specific learnings, but I think just being able to rely on people has been a massive thing because I feel like sometimes you don't realise the support you need until you really need it.'
She also paid tribute to Sydney Sixers general manager Rachael Haynes, saying the club's backing had meant a great deal during the difficult period.
What's Next on the Field
The Women's Big Bash League gets underway on Thursday, with Gardner's Sydney Sixers in action on Friday against the Brisbane Heat. After a season marked by personal scrutiny, the cricket ground is where Gardner has said she feels most purposeful — and most herself.