Where Has the ‘Good Old Fashioned’ Grace Gone?
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Key Takeaways
- Importance of Grace: Karan Johar emphasizes the need for grace in our interactions.
- Social Media's Role: He discusses how social media can contribute to negative behaviors.
- Kindness Matters: The call to celebrate others' successes rather than their failures.
- Authenticity: Encouraging people to embrace their true selves, flaws and all.
- Reviving Courtesy: A plea to restore the lost art of politeness in society.
Mumbai, Dec 30 (NationPress) The Bollywood polymath Karan Johar, recently featured in the streaming series ‘The Ba***ds of Bollywood’, has offered insights regarding the vanishing of “good old fashioned” grace and authenticity.
On Tuesday, the acclaimed director and producer posted a thoughtful note on his Instagram, addressing the decline of courtesy in society and the role of social media in changing people's behavior.
He expressed, “Grace... Is this now an alien phenomenon? Have we as a race completely lost our ability to be good old fashioned graceful? Have we lost the grace to reply to messages and emails... Or if we do reply then can we not reply in monosyllables? Use a heart or have a heart. Are we not able to celebrate other people's successes and can we stop celebrating their failures? Can we praise wholeheartedly and can we criticise without bias, anger and rage. Can we stop making social media a dumping ground of our own failings, shortcomings or inner darkness. Can we go back to just being kind at all times and not taking our own rotten mood out of the house? Are we able to practise what we preach, gyaan givers need to also be gyaan executors.”
He continued, “Are we able to reduce our judgemental levels? You are not the moral police, look within and you will have to deal with your own questionable morality. Lastly, do you have the grace to be YOU! With your flaws, rough edges and indecisions. Be YOU and acknowledge YOU for who YOU are. Let's not bury grace. Let's revive her from the ventilator she's been on for decades. Happy 2026.”
KJo is recognized for his candid and thought-provoking posts on social media, which provide a critical lens on the troubling behaviors and standards that exist within the industry.