Paritosh Tripathi's emotional tribute on father's 9th death anniversary
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Television actor and host Paritosh Tripathi marked his late father's ninth death anniversary on 27 July with a heartfelt note on social media, reflecting on grief, memory, and the milestones his father never got to witness. The post, written in Hindi and shared on his social media account, has resonated widely with fans who have followed the actor's journey.
The Note That Moved Thousands
In his post, Tripathi wrote of the surreal nature of prolonged loss — how nine years have passed yet his father's absence still feels incomprehensible. 'Just like all these years have passed without me even realising it, your physical absence has also become a part of time, and even now I cannot understand that you are no longer physically here,' he wrote.
He recalled the moment grief arrived — a phone call in July 2017 met with silence or the sound of someone crying. 'By the time you understand what that call means, everything has already become the past,' he wrote, capturing the disorientation that follows sudden loss.
A Father's Hand in a Crowded Fair
Tripathi reached for a striking metaphor to describe fatherlessness: 'It's like a child losing his father's hand in a crowded fair. In this fair called life, the child keeps searching for that hand. Every year the crowd of memories grows bigger, and that hand keeps moving farther away.'
He acknowledged that time has strengthened him — 'my fingers have learnt to weave words together' — yet was candid that grief has not dimmed. 'The son inside me is still crying loudly, hoping his voice reaches his father through the noise of the crowd,' he wrote.
A Granddaughter His Father Never Met
The most tender section of the note centred on Tripathi's daughter Meesha, who his father never had the chance to meet. He revealed that Meesha has begun speaking — saying 'Maa', 'Papa', 'Baba', 'Jai Jai' — and that she rushes toward the temple bell when she hears it ring.
Tripathi wrote that when the time comes to teach Meesha her first letters, he will think of his father — described as 'a great scholar of English and a Sanskrit pundit' — and wish it had been him doing the teaching instead. The passage underscores a grief that is not static but evolves with each new chapter of life.
A Career Built on Words
Paritosh Tripathi is known across Indian television as an actor, writer, and reality show host. On the film side, he has appeared in 'Janhit Mein Jaari', 'Selfiee', and 'Merry Christmas'. He concluded his note on a note of quiet resolve: 'Today, whatever I am, I am because of you... and everything is alright, Dad. The journey continues. The journey of acting, and the journey of life.'