Twinkle Khanna remembers Rajesh Khanna: 'He called me Tina Baba, never baby'
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Twinkle Khanna marked Father's Day with a deeply personal tribute to her late father, legendary actor Rajesh Khanna, recalling how he gave her a childhood defined by freedom rather than restriction — and a nickname, 'Tina Baba', that captured his singular way of seeing her. The post, shared on her social media handle, drew an outpouring of responses from fans who grew up watching the Bollywood superstar.
A Name That Said Everything
At the heart of Twinkle's tribute was a small but telling detail: Rajesh Khanna never called her 'Tina Baby' — the conventional diminutive. He called her 'Tina Baba'. 'He always called me Tina baba, never baby,' she wrote, noting that she did not fully grasp the significance of the distinction as a child.
She also revealed what her father reportedly told her mother at the time of her birth: 'That I was the best present she could have ever given him as I entered the world, feet first, on his 31st birthday.' The detail underscores how intertwined Twinkle's arrival was with her father's own life story.
An Unconventional Upbringing
Twinkle, who is also known for her work as an author and columnist, reflected on how her childhood differed from that of many girls of her generation. 'The restrictions drawn around their adolescence did not define mine. The permanent marker, one that would later be passed onto their husbands, to enforce the circle of captivity did not exist in my case,' she wrote.
The admission is notable coming from a figure who has long been candid about gender and personal freedom. Growing up as the daughter of one of Hindi cinema's biggest stars evidently came with an unusual degree of autonomy — something she credits directly to her father.
On Grief and Memory
Twinkle also offered a quietly powerful reflection on loss. 'Loss is not a constant ache, nor does it come equipped with a full stop. It lives between pauses and emerges at unexpected moments. Sometimes it's a song on the radio or when I am applying kohl and I see his eyes, under the same arched brows staring out of my reflection,' she wrote.
The passage captures how grief resurfaces not in grand moments but in ordinary ones — a mirror, a song, a familiar gesture. Rajesh Khanna passed away on 18 July 2012, but for his daughter, his presence evidently lingers in the everyday.
Birthday Wishes She Will Never Hear Again
Perhaps the most poignant moment in the post was Twinkle's account of a birthday ritual she now deeply misses. Because she was born on her father's 31st birthday, they shared the date — and he had his own fixed way of marking it. 'Year after year, he said the same thing. Something that no one else can ever say again, 'Happy birthday to you too, Tina baba',' she recalled.
She described him as a man who 'loved words' and 'always used them in a precise order' — someone who disliked having his books, glasses, or packets of Dunhill moved. That precision extended to his birthday greeting: identical every year, irreplaceable now.
She closed the post with a line that reframed the occasion entirely: 'Father's Day may fall in June, but for me it will always be in December' — the month she and her father shared a birthday.