Sanjay Gupta's wife Anuradha pleads with media: spare our grieving kids
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Key Takeaways
Filmmaker Sanjay Gupta's widow, Anuradha Lekhi Gupta, has issued an emotional public appeal asking media organisations and paparazzi to respect the privacy of their children, following a controversy sparked by a viral video from the late director's funeral on 2 November 2026 in Mumbai. The appeal came after footage allegedly showing the couple's daughter making an obscene gesture at photographers outside the crematorium triggered widespread backlash online.
How the Controversy Unfolded
As the Gupta family drove out of the crematorium following Sanjay Gupta's last rites, paparazzi photographers surrounded their vehicle to click pictures and record videos. A clip that subsequently went viral appeared to show his daughter, seated in the front passenger seat, making a middle-finger gesture toward the photographers, while his son, seated at the back, reportedly made a similar gesture.
The footage drew swift and harsh reactions from a section of social media users, who criticised the children's behaviour. Some netizens also questioned why the siblings appeared to be smiling as they left the crematorium shortly after their father's last rites — comments that drew counter-reactions from others defending the family.
Anuradha's Statement: Key Excerpts
Filmmaker Milap Zaveri shared Anuradha's written statement on his social media account. In her note, she first expressed gratitude: 'With heartfelt gratitude — a part of our lives has been lost forever, and nothing can ever fill the void or make up for this loss. On behalf of our family, I wish to express my heartfelt gratitude to all our family members, friends, Sanjay's fans and our friends in the media for the love, condolences and strength you have extended to us during this difficult time.'
Addressing the incident directly, she wrote: 'Sanjay suffered a fatal head injury in an accidental fall, which led to his untimely demise. Sanjay loved his family and children immensely. Our children are adolescents who have suddenly lost their beloved father.'
She further explained: 'Having grown up away from the glare of the limelight and the intrusive nature of paparazzi culture, they were deeply distressed by the sudden intrusion into their privacy at such a difficult time. In their grief and anguish, some of their reactions may have been directed towards certain members of the media. I sincerely regret any hurt this may have caused.'
Appealing directly for empathy, Anuradha urged: 'I humbly request everyone to understand these reactions for what they truly are — the expressions of grieving children struggling to come to terms with an irreparable loss... I request you to kindly excuse them, and appeal to everyone to delete any content that may leave lasting emotional scars on their young minds. Please allow them the privacy, compassion and space they need to grieve the loss of their father.'
Anuradha's Instagram account was reportedly made private following the incident.
Who Was Sanjay Gupta
Filmmaker Sanjay Gupta passed away on 30 October 2026 at the age of 57, following a fatal head injury sustained in an accidental fall at his Versova residence in Mumbai. According to preliminary police findings, he reportedly lost his balance in the kitchen during the night and struck his head against a wall. His family members were asleep at the time and discovered him the following morning; he was rushed to hospital and declared dead on arrival.
The Versova police registered an accidental death report and initiated a formal investigation. Gupta was best known for directing films including Kaante, Musafir, Zinda, Shootout at Wadala, Jazbaa, Mumbai Saga, and Kaabil.
Bollywood Pays Its Respects
The sudden passing shocked the Hindi film industry. Actors and filmmakers including Sanjay Dutt, Abhishek Bachchan, Farah Khan, Rakesh Roshan, Milap Zaveri, Ronit Roy, and Rohit Roy, among others, attended the funeral and paid their last respects. The volume of industry grief underscored Gupta's standing as a director who consistently delivered commercially successful, high-octane entertainers over three decades.
With Anuradha's appeal now public, attention shifts to how the media and digital platforms respond — and whether the circulation of videos featuring grieving minors will be curtailed.