Delnaaz Irani on Bollywood beauty standards: 'Women expected to look a certain way'
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Actress Delnaaz Irani has spoken candidly about the rigid beauty standards that pervade Bollywood, saying women in the industry face constant pressure to maintain a particular skin tone and physical appearance. The 54-year-old actress made the remarks in a recent interview, touching on body image, ageing gracefully, and the generational shift in how appearance is perceived.
The Pressure Is Real
'Generally speaking, yes, there is pressure,' Irani said. 'Women are expected to have a certain kind of skin and look a certain way. Even I feel that pressure a little bit sometimes, but then I tell myself, Maa ki, mast raho, khaao piyo, aish karo, zindagi jiyo.'
Her remarks resonate widely at a time when the entertainment industry globally is grappling with questions around unrealistic beauty ideals, filter culture on social media, and the mental health toll of appearance-based scrutiny. For women on screen in India, those pressures are arguably sharper given the industry's historically narrow visual vocabulary around desirability.
On Ageing and Self-Acceptance
Irani, who recently celebrated her 54th birthday, said she has chosen a different path. 'If I did [feel that pressure], I would probably be trying very hard to lose weight and worrying about every little thing. I have laugh lines, and I know that these things happen as you grow older. There are so many physical, mental and emotional changes that women go through, but you have to learn to accept yourself,' she said.
Notably, this kind of on-record candour from a working actress about ageing and body image remains relatively rare in mainstream Bollywood, where most public-facing statements default to fitness routines and skincare regimens rather than acceptance.
A Generational Contrast
The actress also drew a sharp contrast between her generation and the pressures facing young people today. 'Times have changed. There is pressure everywhere today. Our generation was different. We were quite simple. We wore what our mothers gave us, and we ate what was served on our plates. There were not so many questions. Today, everything is discussed and questioned,' she said.
She added that this scrutiny now extends beyond appearance to life choices and personal presentation — a reflection of a hyper-connected, social-media-driven culture where every public figure is perpetually visible and, by extension, perpetually judged.
Her Message to Women
'I feel that women should be comfortable with themselves rather than constantly comparing their appearance with unrealistic expectations. Of course, even I sometimes think about how I look, but I don't want to make it the centre of my life. I believe in enjoying life, staying happy and not putting unnecessary pressure on myself,' Irani said.
Currently appearing in the Netflix series Chumbak, Delnaaz Irani has built a substantial body of work across television and digital platforms, with credits including Kal Ho Na Ho, Yes Boss, Son Pari, Jamai Raja, Kabhi Kabhie Ittefaq Sey, and Mannat: Harr Khushi Paane Ki, among others. Her remarks are likely to spark broader conversation about representation, ageing, and self-image in Indian entertainment.