Leena Chandavarkar on rejecting Kishore Kumar's first-meeting proposal
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Key Takeaways
Veteran actress Leena Chandavarkar has shared a candid memory of the day legendary singer-actor Kishore Kumar proposed marriage to her during their very first meeting — and how she turned him down with a pointed question about his previous wives. The revelation came during an upcoming episode of the music reality show 'Indian Idol', where Leena appeared alongside her son Sumit Kumar.
The Unexpected Proposal
In conversation with host Aditya Narayan, Leena recalled that Kishore Kumar had initially invited her to his bungalow under the pretext of offering her a film role. During the meeting, he casually asked whether she wished to marry someday. When she said yes, he immediately quipped, 'Toh mera proposal sabse pehle.'
Leena said she was caught off guard and responded with a mix of amusement and disbelief: 'Nahi nahi... jiske saath aap film karte ho aap shaadi karte ho?' She pointedly referenced his earlier marriages — to Madhubala and Yogita Bali — questioning why he was raising marriage when he had only just offered her a film.
How Kishore Kumar Responded
According to Leena, Kishore Kumar laughed the moment off without any awkwardness, immediately saying, 'Accha baba, cancel kar do... shaadi cancel.' She recalled being struck by how effortlessly he shrugged it off — 'unko bura bhi nahi laga' — and how that lightness was characteristic of the man himself.
She also described how the meeting came about: Kishore Kumar's driver, Abdul, arrived at her home with a message asking her to call him. She later visited his bungalow, where he narrated multiple film stories before announcing the project 'Pyar Ajnabi Hai'. Leena admitted she was going through a difficult period at the time, and the encounter with Kishore Kumar changed her perspective entirely.
Kishore Kumar's Four Marriages
Kishore Kumar was married four times. His first marriage was to singer and actress Ruma Guha Thakurta in 1951; the couple had a son, Amit Kumar. After their separation, he married legendary actress Madhubala in 1960 and remained devoted to her until her death in 1969, following a prolonged battle with a congenital heart condition.
He subsequently married actress Yogita Bali in 1976, but the marriage lasted less than two years. In 1980, Kishore Kumar married Leena Chandavarkar, and the two remained together until his passing in 1987. They have a son, Sumit Kumar, who accompanied Leena on the 'Indian Idol' episode.
The Broader Context
The episode offers a rare first-person account of Kishore Kumar's spontaneous, unconventional personality — one that admirers have long associated with his screen and studio persona. Notably, Leena's recollection also underscores the unusual circumstances under which one of Hindi cinema's most enduring partnerships began. The episode is set to air as part of the ongoing season of 'Indian Idol'.