What Did R. Madhavan Say About His First Love?

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Key Takeaways
- Madhavan's reflections illustrate the evolution of romantic relationships.
- First love was often associated with deep commitment.
- 'Aap Jaisa Koi' showcases love at a mature age.
- The film features Madhavan in a role that explores new beginnings.
- Young love was characterized by sincerity and thoughtful gestures.
Mumbai, July 14 (NationPress) Actor R. Madhavan has reminisced about his youthful experiences with first love, explaining that during that era, romance was steeped in authenticity and a commitment to the future.
During a discussion regarding his new film, “Aap Jaisa Koi,” Madhavan reflected on whether the film's narrative evoked memories of his initial romantic encounters. The ‘Rehnaa Hai Terre Dil Mein’ star noted how perceptions of love have evolved since his youth. “In those days, there was a sense of guilt associated with romance,” he shared. “If you held a girl’s hand and she became your girlfriend, it implied you were destined to marry her. That was the ultimate aspiration. There was no concept of ‘let’s just see where this leads’—no ‘benching, orbiting, or whatever terms are popular today.”
He continued to reminisce about the purity of youthful affection during his time, highlighting that the motivations were always genuine and heartfelt. “When we fell in love, we envisioned a lasting future. It wasn’t about rushing into physical intimacy. It was about creating mixtapes, selecting meaningful gifts, and genuinely courting the person.”
Madhavan clarified that his current role does not directly reflect his personal experiences; however, he acknowledged that the themes of love and forming connections later in life resonate with him emotionally. In the film, his character—a man over the age of 40 who is still single—ultimately discovers love and purpose when a captivating woman agrees to marry him.
“While these experiences were indeed part of our lives, they aren’t tied to this film. This story revolves around a man in his 40s who is unmarried and searching for significance in his life, which he discovers through a lovely woman who consents to marry him.”
Directed by Vivek Soni, “Aap Jaisa Koi” also stars Fatima Sana Shaikh in a leading role. This project marks Madhavan’s inaugural collaboration with the ‘Dangal’ actress. The film made its debut on Netflix on July 11.