Rashmika Mandanna on trolls, Vijay Deverakonda: 'We chose each other'
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Actor Rashmika Mandanna has broken her silence on the intense online scrutiny surrounding her relationship with Vijay Deverakonda, saying the reaction from netizens felt less like an opinion and more like an 'angry mob looking for someone to vent at.' The Pushpa and Animal star posted a detailed statement on Instagram on 26 October 2026, addressing questions that had swirled since the couple's appearance on Koffee With Karan Season 9.
Setting the Record Straight
Rashmika directly addressed speculation about her reportedly proposing to Vijay for an entire year, clarifying that the dynamic between them was never about a formal proposal. 'But neither of us was looking for a grand proposal. The conversation was about him wanting both of us to take the time and space to understand each other, to be sure that despite all the highs and lows, the joys and stresses of life, this was what we wanted and the right time for it. And we did. We chose each other,' she wrote.
She acknowledged that her account of events may not have matched what some followers expected. 'Somewhere along the way, the whole point got lost. Maybe it didn't fit your lens. Maybe some of you simply don't want to see it,' she added.
Vijay as Her Support System
In a candid and emotionally direct passage, Rashmika described Deverakonda as a constant presence during her most vulnerable moments. 'When I snap a bone, you aren't there. He is. When my stomach hurts every month, you aren't there. He is. When I need to go to the hospital, you aren't there. He is. When I wake up in the middle of the night with anxiety, you aren't there. He is,' she wrote, addressing her critics directly.
The passage was widely noted for its unfiltered tone — a departure from the carefully managed public persona both actors have largely maintained.
On Feminism and Trolling
Rashmika drew a firm line between criticism of herself and attacks on her family, warning she would not tolerate the latter. 'Bitch about me all you want. I can take it. But talking about my family without knowing them? That's not feminism. That's bullying dressed up as feminism,' her post read.
She went further, offering her own definition of the term: for her, feminism means the freedom to choose one's own life and take charge of it — not using it as cover to tear others down, regardless of gender. 'I took charge of mine and it rewarded me with immense love,' she concluded.
Why She Spoke Up
Rashmika said her decision to respond publicly was motivated not by defensiveness but by a desire to protect those who 'still believed in love.' This comes amid a broader pattern of celebrity couples facing coordinated online harassment following high-profile media appearances, with Koffee With Karan frequently serving as a flashpoint for such reactions.
The post has sparked significant conversation online, with fans and commentators weighing in on both the relationship and the wider question of how public figures are held to account — or weaponised — by internet audiences.