Sting, 74, reaffirms no inheritance for kids, calls unlimited wealth 'abuse'
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Sting, the legendary actor-singer, has doubled down on his long-held parenting philosophy: his children will not inherit his fortune. In a recent interview with CBS News Sunday Morning, the 74-year-old — born Gordon Matthew Thomas Sumner — laughed off the question but remained firm, telling the network that he has always intended for his five children to forge their own paths in the world.
Why he won't leave them his wealth
Sting articulated a stark view of inherited wealth, describing it as a form of harm. "Telling children they 'don't have to work' is 'a form of abuse that I hope I'm never guilty of'," he said, according to People magazine. The stance reflects a decades-long conviction: his children must earn their own way, even as he covers education, housing, and basic needs.
The work ethic argument
The musician credited both genetics and deliberate messaging for his children's drive. "All of my kids have been blessed with this extraordinary work ethic, whether it's the DNA of it or whether I've said to them, 'Guys, you've got to work. I'm spending our money. I'm paying for your education. You've got shoes on your feet. Go to work'. That's not cruel," he explained. He further noted, "I think there's a kindness there and a trust in them that they will make their own way. They're tough, my kids."
Do his children push back?
When asked if his offspring ever express frustration with this philosophy or request additional funds, Sting replied with characteristic dry wit: "No, not to my face, they don't." According to People, his children have largely respected the boundary, rarely asking for money — a fact he said he "really respect[s] and appreciate[s]."
A consistent message over decades
This is not a new position for Sting. In an earlier interview with Mail on Sunday, he stated, "I certainly don't want to leave them trust funds that are albatrosses round their necks. They have to work. All my kids know that and they rarely ask me for anything, which I really respect and appreciate." Even in 2014, he clarified that while he would assist his children if they "were in trouble," he emphasized, "They have the work ethic that makes them want to succeed on their own merit."
Family background
Sting was previously married to actress Frances Tomelty from 1976 to 1984, with whom he shares two children: son Joe Sumner, now 49, and daughter Fuschia. He has three additional children from his second marriage to Trudie Styler.