Charli xcx on quitting social media: 'Worst place mentally in my life'
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Singer Charli xcx has revealed she is deliberately stepping back from social media, describing her current mental state as the lowest point of her life, in a candid interview with Rolling Stone. The disclosure comes as the British pop star prepares to launch her next album era, Music, Fashion, Film, following the runaway cultural success of Brat.
In Her Own Words
'I have actually been a lot more offline,' Charli said. 'I don't really look as much anymore. It's just better for my brain.' The singer, whose real name is Charlotte Aitchison, was candid about the severity of what she has been experiencing. 'I recently have been really struggling with my mental health to the point where, if I'm being real, I'm in the worst place mentally that I've been in my life,' she said.
She acknowledged the apparent contradiction for an artist who built her identity online. 'I know people probably won't believe me, because I am inherently, at least in the past, a very online artist,' she noted.
How Brat Changed Everything
Brat, released in June 2024, was far more than a commercial success. The album dominated charts, generated a wave of memes, earned three Grammy wins, and transformed its signature lime-green aesthetic into a full-blown cultural moment. But the scale of that breakthrough brought pressures Charli had not previously encountered.
The relentless online discourse surrounding her career, combined with the demands of touring and sustained public scrutiny, eventually became unmanageable. 'It got to a place where my anxiety was physically affecting me, and I can't actually proceed in life like that,' she said. 'The discourse is loud, and sometimes that can be very overwhelming.'
Life Changes Beyond the Screen
Charli's recalibration extends beyond reducing screen time. She has cut back on coffee, restructured her approach to work, and is spending more time with her husband, The 1975 drummer George Daniel. She has also begun hosting intimate fan events — small, face-to-face gatherings centred on art, creativity, and music — as a more grounded alternative to parasocial online engagement.
'Things have changed now. I'm interested in making things really intimate between me and my audience, and sitting down one-on-one with a person and having a conversation,' she said.
What Comes Next: Music, Fashion, Film
Her forthcoming album Music, Fashion, Film has already generated significant online debate, led by the single 'Rock Music' — a distortion-heavy track featuring the declaration that 'the dance floor is dead.' Fans have been divided over whether the pivot signals reinvention, provocation, or both.
Charli has made clear that revisiting the Brat formula is not on the table. 'I knew when I was making it that I was never going to make that record again. It's not creatively rewarding for me to make the same thing twice. All of my albums work in opposites. They repel against each other, and that's the connective tissue,' she said.
She closed with a line that frames the entire shift: 'I want to live my life exactly the way that I want to live it, because I don't get a redo.' With Music, Fashion, Film on the horizon, how Charli navigates the tension between a quieter personal life and a very public artistic identity will be closely watched.