Rajeev Khandelwal on skin colour bias: 'Never let society's judgment become your complex'
Synopsis
Key Takeaways
Actor Rajeev Khandelwal used his platform as host of the reality show 'Tum Ho Naa – Ghar Ki Superstar' to speak out against colour bias, urging viewers and contestants to stop measuring self-worth by skin tone and instead let character and achievements define beauty. His remarks came in response to a candid disclosure by contestant and guest Dr. Reema, who recounted how childhood comparisons with her fairer sisters left lasting marks on her confidence.
What Sparked the Conversation
Dr. Reema opened up about growing up with persistent comments about her complexion — remarks that, she said, stayed with her for years and chipped away at her self-assurance. Her account struck a chord with Khandelwal, who acknowledged how deeply entrenched such biases remain across Indian society.
'Yeh bahut basic si baat hai ki koi kisi ke rang-roop par aise sawaal uthata sakta hai,' the actor said — loosely translated: 'It is shocking that something as basic as a person's appearance or skin colour can still become a reason for people to question them.'
Khandelwal's Personal Stance on Beauty
Going beyond a general appeal, Rajeev Khandelwal shared his own perspective, saying he has always found dusky complexions beautiful. 'Mujhe jab bhi koi mujhse saanvle rang ka insaan milta hai, main bolta hoon ki kitna khoobsurat rang hai aapka,' he said — meaning: 'Whenever I meet someone with a dusky complexion, I always tell them, "You have such a beautiful skin tone."' He was careful to add that he was not saying it for the benefit of Dr. Reema's presence on stage, but that it reflected a genuine, long-held belief.
The Call to Redefine Beauty Through Action
Khandelwal encouraged Dr. Reema — and by extension all viewers — to let their deeds reshape societal standards. 'Aap na yeh prove kariye taaki log bolein ki hamare bachche bilkul Doctor Reema jaise ho. Wohi rang chahiye humein. Yeh hamare karm hi kar sakte hain,' he said, urging her to live in a way that people one day aspire for their children to be just like her — and that only one's actions can bring about that kind of change.
He also invoked a familiar Indian adage — 'surat par mat jao, seerat par jao' (don't judge by the face, judge by the character) — and stressed that no one should allow society's superficial judgments to take root as a personal complex.
A Recurring Theme on the Show
This is not the first time Rajeev Khandelwal has raised social issues on 'Tum Ho Naa – Ghar Ki Superstar'. He has previously addressed body shaming and related insecurities from the same platform, positioning the show as a space for conversations that go beyond typical reality-television entertainment. The repeated focus on self-image issues reflects a broader trend of Indian non-fiction television engaging with social stigmas that audiences rarely see discussed openly.
As colour bias continues to be flagged by mental health professionals as a significant source of low self-esteem — particularly among women — Khandelwal's remarks add a visible public voice to a conversation that critics argue mainstream media has long underserved.