Nimisha Sajayan on looks-shaming: 'After a point of disrespect, you react'
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Actor Nimisha Sajayan has spoken candidly about facing public judgment over her appearance, saying she has reached a place where such remarks no longer affect her — while acknowledging that not every woman has the freedom to respond the same way. Her comments came ahead of the release of her upcoming film Babita Reporting, in which she plays a character navigating a similar arc.
On Being Judged for Her Looks
'I too have been judged on the way I look many times. I think I am more of that person like it doesn't matter now, it doesn't affect me,' Nimisha said in a recent conversation. 'You take it, there's a point of disrespect, but after a point, you start reacting.'
The actor drew a direct parallel between her own experience and that of her character Babita, noting, 'And I think that's what Baby is also. And I think it's the same with everyone, you know.'
The Privilege to React
Nimisha reflected on a realisation she had while shooting Babita Reporting — that the ability to push back against judgment is itself a form of privilege. 'When I was shooting for Baby, there was a point where I thought I could react, but at the same time, I also realized that there are a lot of women who can't do it,' she said. 'They don't come from that space where they can react. They don't have that privilege, you know, to do.'
This acknowledgement adds a layer of social commentary to what might otherwise read as a personal anecdote. Nimisha's remarks surface a tension that many women navigate — the gap between knowing one deserves to respond and having the social, economic, or emotional security to actually do so.
Babita's Transformation in the Film
At the heart of Babita Reporting is a character who begins by absorbing the expectations of those around her before arriving at a moment of self-recognition. 'There's a point where she's listening to everything and she's adjusting to people and their wants, but there's a point when she realizes it and she breaks through,' Nimisha explained.
She described this shift as a 'game changer' — one that changes not just how Babita sees herself, but how she engages with the world. 'When she comes out of that shell, the way she approaches a certain situation or she starts dealing with people, it changes,' she said.
How Personal Experience Shapes Perspective
Nimisha connected Babita's journey to a broader truth about how lived experience reshapes a person's worldview. 'For me also as a person, you go through some situation, you face something and all of a sudden, your perspective changes,' she said. 'The way you start looking at things around you, it changes, it shifts and you start seeing things differently.'
She added: 'So, I think it's the situations and the things that you deal with in your life that makes you a different person.'
With Babita Reporting generating anticipation, Nimisha's candid reflections suggest the film carries personal weight — and a message that extends well beyond the screen.