Sitharaman on Modi: 'He listens without interrupting'
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At a college students' interaction in Chennai, Tamil Nadu, on Friday, September 25, 2026, Union Finance Minister Nirmala Sitharaman offered a rare first-person portrait of Prime Minister Narendra Modi — not as a policy architect, but as a listener.
Speaking in Tamil, Sitharaman described how Modi, whenever he meets someone, gives them the full floor: 'யாரைச் சந்தித்தாலும், அவர்கள் சொல்ல வந்ததை முழுமையாகச் சொல்லி முடிக்கும் வரை மிகுந்த பொறுமையோடு கேட்பார்' — 'Whoever he meets, he listens with great patience until they have finished saying everything they came to say.' No interruptions. No phone nearby. No distractions. The person in front of him gets the full, undivided conversation.
What Sitharaman told Chennai's college women
The Finance Minister went further, telling the students that meetings with Modi are never one-way briefings — they are continuous two-way dialogues. 'There will always be a two-way conversation going on,' she said. Beyond listening, Modi also follows up: he monitors tasks continuously and provides the guidance needed. The picture she drew is of a leader whose attention is the rarest currency in a high-speed executive environment — and who distributes it freely to whoever sits across from him.
The event itself — a structured interaction with college women students in Chennai — reflects a pattern of senior BJP leaders holding youth-facing outreach sessions in Tamil Nadu, a state where the party has been working steadily to build grassroots credibility. Sitharaman, herself from Tamil Nadu, is a natural anchor for such events, and her choice to speak in Tamil adds a layer of directness for the audience.
A recurring BJP message about Modi's meeting style
This is not the first time a senior BJP leader has shared an anecdote about Modi's one-on-one meeting etiquette. The 'no-phone, no-interruption' motif has surfaced periodically in party communications, typically from state-level outreach events involving youth or students. The consistency of the message — across leaders, across occasions — suggests a deliberate effort to shape the Prime Minister's image not just around policy outcomes, but around personal conduct: accessible, attentive, and grounded even at the apex of power.
For a room full of students who have grown up in the age of constant digital distraction, the image of the country's most powerful executive putting his phone away and simply listening may be the sharpest leadership lesson Sitharaman could have offered.