Kalki Koechlin Discovers the Value of Patience Through Her Daughter Sappho
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Synopsis
Kalki Koechlin shares insights on parenting and patience learned from her daughter Sappho, emphasizing the importance of understanding child development and impulse control.
Key Takeaways
- Kalki Koechlin learned patience from her daughter.
- Understanding child development is crucial.
- Children's impulse control develops over time.
- Consulting professionals can aid in parenting.
- Education on developmental stages is essential.
New Delhi, April 19 (NationPress) The National Award-winning actress Kalki Koechlin disclosed that the most significant lesson she has acquired from her five-year-old daughter, Sappho, is patience.
Reflecting on the essential lesson she wishes she had grasped earlier in life, Kalki shared with IANS, “Patience. Everything unfolds in its own time.”
The 41-year-old actress emphasized the necessity of recognizing a child’s developmental phases, particularly how their brain influences impulse control.
“You become aware of the variance in your child’s abilities between ages three, five, and seven, and it passes by swiftly. However, when you're present in that moment, when they're three and facing challenges, it's crucial to remember that their prefrontal cortex is not yet fully developed.”
“This brain region governs impulses. If I feel anger towards someone, I might act on it, but I don't because my prefrontal cortex is fully developed. Children lack this, so their reactions can be more impulsive. Often, we overlook that there’s a biological explanation for these behaviors.
“It’s not a sign of hatred; it's not personal; they simply lack the tools to manage their impulses. By the age of four, she learned to control her impulses; she could feel anger without resorting to physical aggression,” she added.
Kalki reflected on how advice from a child psychologist aided her in understanding developmental milestones.
“Being aware of these growth stages is vital. Our child psychologist provided us with insights—such as the appropriate age when a child should be out of diapers or when they should start sleeping independently.”
She added, “These are insights you wouldn’t naturally know unless you consult a professional, or learn by observing your first child before having a second. Hence, it’s crucial to have education on this matter.”
