Vardhaan Puri recalls grandfather Amrish's surprise visit from London on birthday
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Actor Vardhaan Puri on his birthday reflected on a cherished memory from the early 2000s when his legendary grandfather Amrish Puri and grandmother flew back from London unannounced to celebrate with him at a farmhouse on Madh Island. The surprise arrival during a cricket match transformed what could have been a disappointing celebration into what Vardhaan describes as the most meaningful birthday of his life.
The Surprise That Changed Everything
Vardhaan recalled that his grandparents were abroad when he was celebrating at a family friend's farmhouse. "In the middle of a cricket match, while I was batting, I suddenly noticed a car pulling up. To my complete surprise, out stepped my Dadu and Dadi. They had flown back just to surprise me," he said. The unexpected arrival meant all his grandparents who were in good health at the time — Amrish Puri, his grandmother, and his maternal grandmother — were present to mark the occasion together.
Family Traditions and Celebrations
Vardhaan described how birthdays in his household are anchored in ritual and togetherness. Celebrations begin with Kada Prasad, a blessed traditional preparation, followed by cake-cutting and a family pooja with close friends and loved ones. The festivities then unfold with music, dancing, and singing to classics spanning Kishore Kumar, Lata Mangeshkar, Asha Bhosle, as well as international icons like Michael Jackson and Elvis Presley.
Life Lessons From His Grandparents
The actor attributed much of his outlook on life to his grandparents' wisdom. He recalled their teachings about perseverance: "Success is often just one step beyond the moment you feel like giving up, so never quit." Amrish Puri and his wife also instilled in him the belief that everyone is born with purpose, and that patience combined with persistence allows the universe to align with one's aspirations. Notably, they taught him that "art is nurtured in solitude but presented in public" — a philosophy that shaped his approach to his craft.
The Ideal Birthday Moment
When asked what birthday he would most like to relive, Vardhaan painted a picture of simplicity and intimacy: sitting with his grandparents over Punjabi dishes, watching Charlie Chaplin films in a comfortable setting, followed by Tom and Jerry cartoons, sharing laughter and uncomplicated joy. This vision underscores how, for Vardhaan, the value of celebration lies not in grandeur but in presence and connection with those he loves most.