Sandhya Mridul calls out class discrimination after domestic help denied salon haircut
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Key Takeaways
Actress Sandhya Mridul has ignited a sharp public debate on class discrimination and entitlement after revealing that her family's domestic help was allegedly refused a haircut at two luxury salons in Mumbai. The incident, which she described as deeply upsetting, came to light after she posted a video on social media on 9 June recounting what had happened.
What Happened at the Salons
According to Mridul, her mother had accompanied the family's young domestic worker to a salon for a routine haircut, only to be turned away. The pair then tried a second salon, which also refused to provide the service. Mridul said her mother — whom she described as a gentle, non-confrontational person — was forced to plead with staff at the second establishment, even offering to pay extra out of distress.
'Something happened yesterday that has really pissed me off. My mom took our little girl for a haircut to a salon and they refused to cut her hair. Then she had to take her to another salon who also refused to cut her hair. I mean, what time are we living in?' she said in the video.
The second salon eventually agreed to provide the service, but only after considerable persuasion. Mridul said the young domestic worker was left embarrassed and hurt by the repeated rejections.
A Pattern Bigger Than One Haircut
Mridul framed the incident as symptomatic of a wider, systemic problem affecting domestic workers, delivery personnel, and other support staff across urban India. She pointed to the practice of restricting domestic help from using residential building lifts as another example of the same entitlement.
'There are buildings where they say help can't come into this lift. I mean, who are you? You're so entitled. What nonsense is this? This is really hurtful,' she said.
Notably, the actress also turned the lens inward, arguing that individual consumers bear responsibility for perpetuating such norms. 'We can't just blame these salons and the people guarding the lift. It's us, many of us, who are asking for this, who are saying please don't allow these people into salons, please don't allow these people into elevators,' she added.
Public Response and Follow-Up
The videos drew a strong response online, with a large number of viewers expressing agreement with Mridul's position. In a follow-up post, the actress thanked supporters and said the scale of the reaction itself signalled a readiness for change. 'The fact that so many of you agree that this was wrong and that it resonated with you, that's enough to start trying to make a change,' she said.
Mridul also addressed criticism over her use of the phrase 'our girl' when referring to the domestic worker, clarifying it was a term of affection and not ownership.
What the Actress Plans Next
Mridul said she intends to take direct action once she returns to the city where her mother lives. 'The fact of the matter is that I am addressing it and I will make sure that something changes with this situation. Once I'm back in town to where my mother lives, I will be taking action,' she said. She also issued a broader call for people to speak up against discriminatory restrictions imposed on domestic workers and service staff.