Harshad Chopda opens up about past fear of gay men on Lock Upp 2
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Television actor Harshad Chopda made a candid admission on Lock Upp Season 2, revealing that fear and a lack of understanding once drove him to literally flee from a gay man — and that he later sought out that person to apologise. The conversation, which unfolded during a discussion on sexuality and identity, aired in the latest episode of the reality show.
The Incident Chopda Recalled
During a breakfast-hour segment where contestants were asked whether sexuality defines a person's identity or is shaped by societal perception, Chopda opened up after fellow contestant Dheeraj Dhoopar shared his own views on the LGBTQ+ community.
Chopda recalled an early-career encounter where he panicked upon meeting a gay man. 'Pehle na main bhaag jaata tha seedha. Samajh nahi aata tha,' he said — roughly translating to: 'Initially, I would just run away. I just couldn't understand.' He added that he fabricated a work excuse to leave, even though the other person knew his shoot had been cancelled.
He also recounted a ramp walk he did early in his career, saying he chose not to collect his payment because doing so would have required visiting the organiser's home — a situation he said made him uncomfortable at the time.
The Apology Years Later
Chopda said he eventually confronted his own behaviour when he crossed paths with the same person again. 'When I met him now, I went to him and told him — Sorry I did not know how to deal with the situation,' the actor shared. He described himself as non-confrontational and admitted it took him longer than most to process unfamiliar social situations. 'Maybe it takes me longer but mujhe darr lagta tha,' he said.
Dheeraj Dhoopar's Contrasting View
Actor Dheeraj Dhoopar offered a markedly different perspective during the same conversation. 'I am so comfortable around gays. Lagta hi nahi hai,' he said, adding: 'Personally, mera yeh opinion hai ki they are better human beings. They are more sensitive towards everything. They are wonderful.'
Broader Discussion on the Show
The episode also featured fashion influencer Sufi Motiwala, who spoke about his personal journey, revealing that his parents still believe there is something wrong with him because of his sexuality. The segment formed part of a wider conversation on Lock Upp Season 2 exploring themes of sexuality, identity, and societal acceptance. The show continues to draw attention for pushing its contestants into candid, often uncomfortable territory on social issues.